Fun-Loving Companion Wanted For Amazing 10-Year-Old!

Manhattan, IL

We're seeking a patient, enthusiastic companion for our incredible daughter who has a PDA (Pervasive Drive for Autonomy) profile on the autism spectrum. She's currently unschooling at home, and we need someone who can roll with the flow, share in her adventures, and genuinely enjoy spending time together gaming, crafting and playing other imaginative games. We currently take an “unschooling” approach which means we are not following a set curriculum but there are learning opportunities such as trips to the library, museums, or other activities as they arise.

We use a low-demand, trauma-informed approach with declarative language. Our daughter needs to feel on equal ground with others regardless of age. This what her nervous system needs to feel safe. You'll let her take the lead, keep things calm (no pressure/demands), tune into sensory/emotional needs, and approach interactions as equals. Think "cool older friend". She really thrives when you show interest in her special interests such as Roblox and cats.

Ideal candidates would be students or professionals in: OT, ST, Special Ed, Social Work, Special Ed Advocacy or knowledge of autism, PDA profiles, or supporting kids with dysregulation and nervous system regulation techniques that are not based in ABA.

If you do not have knowledge of PDA but do have experience with Autism and are willing to take some brief training on PDA (it is a very different nervous system disability) then I encourage you to still apply.

We do not do “rewards/punishments” based consequences; as that sends our daughter’s nervous system into an even greater threat response. Instead we follow a nervous system co-regulating approach, and instead of using consequences we use re-direction.

Some medication distribution and management may be needed. Light meal prep for our daughter (nothing too complex.)

We have 2 cats and a dog- so must be comfortable with pets. Only pet duty is letting out the dog once or twice while you’re here and possibly feeding pets.

The hours are Tuesdays and Thursdays, 12pm - 5pm to start, and hours may increase based on how well it goes.

Please send your details, resume and interest to ------------

Background check will be completed prior to starting - with your consent. (Paid for by the family.)

Pay is $15 an hour to start.